Monday, December 10, 2018

Son’s Death Anniversary, 70th Human Rights Declaration Anniversary, RIP George HW Bush, Migrants, Assange, Suicide in America, Plunging Birthrates

My 3-year-old grandson Kingston in Hawaii, in a photo taken by his father, my son Jon, visiting there recently from his current home in W Va. 

           Dec. 19 is the anniversary of my beloved son Andrew's untimely death.



December 10 is not only Human Rights Day, but also the 70th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. We’d like to think some progress has been made during those 70 years.

Donald Trump, who has constantly disparaged the Bush family and George HW Bush’s NAFTA initiative, suddenly decided to go all-out for the former president’s funeral. Trump is nothing if not unpredictable. Of course, the Bush family, in an attempt at reconciliation, invited Trump to the funeral, an olive branch that he seems to have relished after being snubbed by McCain’s family. (How will he react if former President Carter dies on his watch?) No doubt Trump was squirming in his seat during the long ceremony which was not about him for a change and seemed a rebuttal to his approach to governing.

Though I did not vote for GHW, I consider him to have been an OK president, better than his son. He was certainly moderate and reasonable in contrast to Trump. He showed restraint after the invasion of Kuwait (but failed to support the Iraqis after urging them to “rise up”). He presided over the enactment of the Americans with Disabilities Act, which I had worked on beforehand behind the scenes, assisting my late former husband. Bush Senior also signed the Clean Air Act now being thwarted by Trump. He advocated statehood for Puerto Rico. His “Thousand Points of Light.“ much disparaged by Trump, were considered inspiring. And the elder Bush welcomed the fall of the Berlin Wall, but also oversaw the Tiananmen Square massacre.

But for all the accolades heaped on a fallen leader, his legacy is not unblemished. Bush presided over the Anita Hill hearings and nominated Clarence Thomas and also was lukewarm about confronting AIDS, which afflicted my late Cuban foster son Alex, leading to his death. The Willie Horton accusations that he repeatedly leveled during his presidential campaign were pretty egregious. Father Bush was also famous for his garbled syntax, echoed later by his son in his own presidency. (But compared to Trump, GHW in his presidency was the soul of eloquence.) In his later (senile?) years, while posing for photo ops in his wheelchair, the late former president would reportedly routinely pinch the bottoms of unsuspecting young women standing next to him and chortle “David-cop-a feel,” to wife Barbara’s great consternation. So, like most human beings, he leaves a mixed legacy.

The Me-Too movement is an ongoing cultural and power distribution shift leaving many men befuddled and defensive and propelling many of them to join with misogynist Donald Trump. While women of my generation in our youth simply accepted male dominance and sexual aggression as reality, thanks to birth control and rising expectations, women are now seeking more options. Just as there was (and still is) resistance to black empowerment and equality, there is going to be continuing resistance to female empowerment. At least some of the vilification of Hillary Clinton has been based on that. Today’s Republican-dominated Senate is one of the last bastions of male dominance.

Here’s another take on the Central American migrant caravan.

The migrant situation is complicated, like most issues when examined in depth. I am not a big fan of contrarian legislator Mel Zelaya, who may have set this caravan in motion. Neither am I a fan of the current president of Honduras, Juan Orlando Hernández, who managed to change the constitution to give himself a second term, as Zelaya had attempted to do, but was thwarted. A pox on both their houses! 

Here’s another story about the Honduran president’s brother being indicted on drug charges in the US,].

Of course, there were 16 siblings in the Honduran president’s family, so their parents might not have been able to keep track of them all and chances are that some bad apples might have turned up among them. Many Hondurans believe the president is another bad apple, but the family does seem to have been an enterprising bunch. When I was in Honduras in Feb., people who had voted for the president considered him the lesser of evils, as the other major candidate was a TV entertainer who had bragged about his sexual prowess and was supported by Zelaya, the legislator and former president mentioned in these pages before, an ally of the late Hugo Chavez. Many people simply told me they had not voted when faced with those choices. I will say that President Hernandez talking on TV sounded much more organized and coherent than Trump, including when he took questions from reporters. That's not saying much. 

Many, if not most, people in Central America dream of going to the US. It's a shared fantasy of a better life, although since Trump took office, some have changed their mind—his rhetoric has had a chilling effect and border crossing are actually down. Still, poverty and violence there are real, but unless you are starving, you can adjust to poverty--it becomes normal. It's a situation shared with all your associates, so simply what you come to expect, as I found out when I lived there as a Peace Corps volunteer for 3 1/2 years. When I came home to the US to a bathroom with a hot shower and flush toilet, that seemed exotic. But violence that threatens you directly is another matter. I do worry about my own safety whenever I go to Honduras, especially in a taxi or on a bus when a hold-up is always possible. And it really isn't feasible for a poor Honduran to just pick up and move to a safer part of the country since there are not many safe places, except maybe in remote villages where it's practically impossible to fit in and earn even a subsistence living. For many Central American young people, the journey north is an adventure and a rite of passage.

The northward journey is dangerous and difficult and the risks don’t end when they arrive in the US, but when they are first starting out, they don’t know that. Of course, this guy did, because he had done it before. https://apnews.com/aaac850c517441b4a1936cb59cdc7040

If Mexico is willing to accept most of the migrants who already speak their national language and are willing to work in border sweatshops for $2 or less per hour, that might still be preferable for them than trying to get into the US. But Mexico's capacity is also limited and there is plenty of violence there too. It would be an irony if migrants now become attracted by “the Mexican dream." 

Why is Sen. Chuck Schumer seeming to agree to fund Trump’s border wall? Is it to try to agree with Trump on something or to avoid a government shutdown? Is it because he knows the rest of the Democratic contingent won’t allow it? It would be a big waste of money, be environmentally damaging, and present a negative image of our country. Shore up fences, if you will, but no wall! Now Schumer is saying it’s money actually for “border security,” not necessarily for a wall.

My younger daughter and her husband live and work in Honolulu and I have a little grandson living there, and am also concerned for all of Hawaii’s residents. So, I believe we need to get Trump out of the presidency as soon as possible, before North Korea builds up its nuclear arsenal to the point that it can reach not only Seoul and Tokyo, but Honolulu. Trump represents a grave danger to humankind.

Julian Assange may have avoided prison by holing up in the Ecuadoran Embassy, its own sort of prison. Now that it is becoming clear that WikiLeaks was instrumental in getting Trump elected, will Assange become eligible for a presidential pardon? If so, there may not be much time left, as the noose seems to be tightening around Donald Trump. (Or is that just my wishful thinking?) Trump seems to be getting increasingly ansy as he tries to feign being in charge. Will his supporters both in government and in the public jettison him if the evidence against him appears too strong? If it comes to that, probably Mike Pence will pardon him, following the Nixon playbook. Then Donald Trump can retire mercifully to the golf course and try again to make real estate deals, though with much diminished capacity with his fraudulence revealed. He may even find a ghostwriter for another memoir giving his side of the story, how the fake media and deep state did him in, which will still sell among his hard core.

Looking back on my Peace Corps years, after the tragic deaths of my son and Cuban foster son and so many years of juggling the needs of my family as a single parent with work obligations and volunteer duties, being in rural Honduras served as a retreat and a respite. Some folks may seek peace in an ashram or a monastery, but I was able to get away from it all by just leading a simple life in a Honduran village. No wonder that I was willing to extend my Peace Corps service for more than a year while many other volunteers went home early or left immediately after completing their 27-month term.

According to the Economist cover story for Nov. 24-30, 2018, global suicide rates are falling, rising only in the US, where half of suicides are carried out with guns. Since suicide is often an impulsive act, easy gun availability makes it lethal.

In the same issue, US birthrates are falling below replacement, approaching low European and Japanese levels. The availability of effective contraception is certainly a factor, as is the greater participation of women in the workforce. Birthrates for Hispanic women are the only sector approaching replacement, but even those have begun falling. All the more reason why our country, as well as Europe and Japan, should welcome more immigrants. 

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