Saturday, December 1, 2018

Thanksgiving Here & Abroad, World AIDS Day, Pending Anniversary of Son Andrew’s Death, Daughter Melanie’s Birthday, Camp Fire, Trump Again & Again (alas still with us!), Canadian Diplomats Targeted by Sonic Attacks in Cuba, Refugees & Migrants

Here is my friend Priscila with her 2 sons on Thanksgiving morning at McDonald’s, of all places, the only local breakfast venue we could find that was open.



I had a wonderful dinner that evening with my daughter Melanie, my only child living here in DC.

Here’s something about Honduras regarding the migrant caravan. Who really are the “very bad hombres” whom Trump has referred to in relation to the migrants? I’ve been asking folks in Honduras about this allegation.  "Caravan Refugees Fled Honduras —Where the President's Brother is an Alleged Cartel Kingpin" https://thebea.st/2ztINaX?via=ios

Central American migrants being sprayed with tear gas reminded me of my own experience. While tear gas may be less harmful than bullets, it is hardly benign. I was caught with a crowd demonstrating against Pinochet while an election observer in Chile in 1988. We all experienced eye irritation and searing of our throats and lungs, all of us gasping and choking as we fled.

On Thanksgiving, the Donald, quite typically, gave thanks for himself for being such an outstanding president. Was he joking or just acting out a parody of himself? GW Bush, under the spell of Cheney and other wayward advisers, did some very dumb and harmful things, but also did, or at least tried to do, a few good things, like immigration reform (unsuccessfully). But it’s hard to say anything good at all about Trump so far, two years in. Of course, “good” and “bad” are subjective categories about which there will always be disagreement. However, in a democracy, the definition of such terms should rest with the majority, while under Trump, only a minority really consider him a “good” president and a majority consider him decidedly “bad”. He’s had enough time and opportunity to show his good side, if he has one. We like to think that humankind is making progress, but under Trump, the world has been backsliding. Even US life expectancy has fallen slightly. So now the task is to get rid of Trump and start to undo the damage.

Today is World AIDS Day, which I used to celebrate in Honduras with the aid of young people marching along with an AIDS banner that we had made and putting on outdoor skits about avoiding sex or using condoms or getting tested if they were pregnant (a teenage girl with a pillow under her shirt).

Yet, I agree with House Democrats who want to go slow in opposing and investigating Trump to avoid arousing his supporters, both in Congress and among the public, and to tamp down the already fierce partisan divide. They should offer an olive branch and try to find areas of agreement with Trump, even as he remains in fighting mode. How about building a very short section of “The Wall” just to give him something to brag about and stand next to for photo-ops?  Trump is vulnerable to manipulation by actors both foreign and domestic, even within his inner circle, especially if they seem to praise him.

Thanksgiving just past has put me in mind of Thanksgiving holidays that I have celebrated in other countries, including in Colombia as a teenager, in Romania on a mission on behalf of institutionalized children, and later as Peace Corps volunteer in Honduras.  Of course, Thanksgiving is not a holiday elsewhere, except in Canada at an earlier date, nor are turkeys normally eaten elsewhere, being an American bird. So it’s always a special task to find a Thanksgiving turkey in other countries and, in my experience, they are usually tough and boney and forget about cranberry sauce. Still, there is a special camaraderie in celebrating the holiday with just a few kindred souls and in making the effort to try to duplicate the holiday back home.

December is a bittersweet month for our family. My older son, Andrew, died at age 27 on December 19 in 1994, a date that is also my daughter Melanie’s birthday. This year, she turns 50, which I simply have trouble believing. Has it really been 50 years since I first held that little dark-haired baby in arms? Lots of water under the bridge since then.

After the terrible Camp Fire in northern California, I suspect a few folks who had wanted to skip out on their families and start a new life will now do so, since it has been predicted that not all bodies of the disappeared will be found.

Donald Trump, misspeaking as usual, referred to the fire-ravaged town of Paradise as “Pleasure.” Nor has he commented much on his daughter Ivanka’s use of private e-mail for government business, something that he considered a mortal sin when done by Hillary, requiring “lock her up.” It’s not like Ivanka didn’t know that was a no-no. The Trump offspring have been pretty quiet lately, laying low. And Donald has basically exonerated the Saudi Crown Prince in the Khashoggi murder. Of course, GW Bush also ignored the Saudi role in 9/11.

Singer Rufus Wainright is right-on, warning that “the fox is in the henhouse.” Trump’s ascendancy to the presidency, after acquiring the support of only a minority of Americans, gives the majority the experience of living under a dictatorship where everything is decreed by the dictator and enforced by the minority who support him. Trump has certainly acted like a dictator, firing people willy-nilly, aligning himself with foreign dictators, and trying to silence the media. While the minority who voted for Trump might have felt disregarded before and empowered now, is it better that they overrule the majority? In a dictatorship, a minority always supports the ruler as he cannot act alone and must rely on his faithful to carry out orders. When Trump’s appointees fail to carry out his mandates, he fires them. Will we remember Trump when he is out of office, as is bound to happen, hopefully sooner rather than later? Then the analysis of what went wrong will go on ad infinitum. But at the moment, the Tea Party is still going strong, at least on line, drumming up conspiracy theories.

This article in the NYTimes warns that projections of the US becoming a “minority-majority” country, that is, with native-born whites in the minority, has become a rallying cry for Trump and other white racists. So might it be best to play down those predictions? The article points out that the definition of “whiteness” is pretty fluid and that people with some minority inheritance may actually become absorbed into the “white category, since race is a social construct, not something objective and immutable. Definitions change, Is the offspring of a parent with northern European heritage and another parent of another ethnicity “white”? If that offspring married someone of European heritage, then what? Are Jewish people “white”? What about a blond, blue-eyed Hispanic?  There have been two cases recently of black men shot and killed while trying to defend against a shooter. The NRA’s “a good guy with a gun” refers only to white guys?  
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/11/22/us/white-americans-minority-population.html?action=click&module=Well&pgtype=Homepage&section=US
                  

The pattern for Trump appointees seems to get fired (like on The Apprentice) or being pressed to resign, then to write a book.

US diplomats in Havana are not the only ones injured by mysterious sonic attacks that also targeted Canadian diplomats. https://www.theglobeandmail.com/world/article-canadas-brain-injured-cuba-diplomats-speak-out-about-ottawas-silence/

It’s great that Honduran migrants are being offered jobs in Tijuana, where they not only don’t have to worry about being deported, but also speak the same language as everyone else. Some locals have protested their arrival, but they seem to be a minority.

While my sympathies are with refugees and migrants to the US, who enrich our culture, help fill our worker shortage, and offset the aging of the population, nonetheless, there are limits as to how many new people can be absorbed, something Canada, Australia, and Europe are also grappling with. But we can admit higher numbers than are now being permitted.

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